NC. My PIL have frittered away every penning; sold their house, crap businesses, first class travel etc and now insist on living free in my BIL's holiday house and demanding an allowance from other BIL.
They have lots of china, jewellery etc that could be sold but won't. They have been made bankrupt several times.
My DH and his brothers are scared of their DF who is a bully, so easier to give him money and sweep all difficult conversations under the carpet.
My DH and I agreed a long time ago that we'd be supportive but detached and that he would not give them money.
I discovered last week that he's been paying them an allowance. I'm upset and hurt he has gone behind my back and have no idea how to approach this calmly or what resolution I should hope for?
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DH giving money to PILs after agreeing not to
slatersrow · 03/11/2014 08:52
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