hi am a bit embarrassed about this not sure if its tmi. anyway been seeing a new guy he seems nice very kind and thoughtful. we have gotten closer but when chatting about stuff we like etc he said he wasn't a fan of giving oral as it made him feel like gagging and uncomfortable. this was a bit of a surprise as previous guys have all been ok with it and its always been a big part of what I like.
obviously he doesn't mind if I do it to him but is quite firm about not being keen. he hasn't said never but the thing is I don't want him to be uncomfortable and I think if it was other way round he would drop it. I suggested he could try and practice but I don't think he will. also purely selfishly if he hasn't done a lot of it he is unlikely to know what to do down there anyway.
its just that has always been the main way I have ahem enjoyed myself. its not that other stuff isn't good but its just that is so much better
so I guess am asking should I just accept that it wont happen with him or is there a nice way of encouraging it. I do feel selfish but I do find it unusual as not come across it before
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new partner not keen on giving oral, not sure how to handle it
bitembarrassed3 · 01/11/2014 13:24
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