Following my family thread yesterday it seems my life is destined to be an Eastenders plot line. Discovered my husband at 6am in the bath watching porn.
This is after years of ED and no interest in sex. Any interest I pushed for he'd want me on top, to always see me, to be shaven - you get the picture.
Many times I've asked him if he's gay or watches porn. It's the lying and disregard for my feelings over the years that has shellshocked me. I don't know him.
On another note I'm far from prudish but after looking online this morning, it's gross and totally exploitative of women. Nice.
Feel numb.
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Discovered porn habit 22 years together
purplelavendar · 31/10/2014 12:58
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