Hi
Am 45 years old, have 3 dc (1 in secondary school, 2 at primary) and am a SAHM.
Dh and I are probably in what you would describe as a loveless marriage. Yet I do nothing about anything. Almost as if the fact that I get no approval or affection from him (he basically ignores me) means that there is no point to anything. We have been to counselling together but that was short lived as he stopped coming after about 5 sessions.
Really should be getting myself together and sorting out work for myself as well as sorting out the house better but instead seem to spend all my time obsessing about how much my h doesn't like me and on mumsnet .
I really need to break out of my cycle and become more productive but instead cannot stop thinking about all the things that are (very) wrong with my marriage and also how scared I am of a potential divorce.
Basically how can I break out of my rut despite the fact that my h has no respect/love for me and does not view me as an equal partner?
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How to stop being so passive - I am wasting my life!
textingdisaster · 30/10/2014 12:11
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