DH is pressurising me to get an au pair. I don't feel happy having someone living in my house and I feel my role as mother is undermined by having an other woman in the house. I know it sounds silly but I know I would have feelings of jealousy if my children (daughter 3 son 10 months)started looking to someone else for love, comfort, entertainment.
Dh uses threat of au pair as a way of avoiding me asking for more help from him. So if I ask for more he'll say 'if we had an au pair....'. What to do, any tips?
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DH pressuring me to get an au pair
ihateexercise · 01/10/2006 20:48
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