I have been seeing this guy for three weeks now (messaging on POF for over two weeks before that). First week of messaging after first date was pretty much daily, long conversations. Contact now has decreased considerably, to the point of two whole days passing without hearing from him at all. I messaged saying I had noticed the change on comms and giving him a way out if he's not that interested any longer. He replied saying he likes me a lot but he's a lousy communication, crap at keeping in touch with people etc...but he's definitely keen to see where things go. When we are together he's very attentive and thoughtful otherwise.
I guess my question is, how much contact is normal in the early days in between dates? (once weekly)... Would you be annoyed were you to only hear from the person you are seeing once every two/three days or do you see it as acceptable?
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Very early days in relationship... contact how often?
Aliensloveunderpants00 · 28/08/2014 17:45
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