I'm a SAHM. I do all the tidying, cooking, cleaning, childcare, washing etc. His one job is to wash the dishes. We have not one clean dish in the house. He's not done a full load of dishes for over a year because he leaves them so long that they pile up and pile up then he spends a while doing them and goes for "a break". He won't open or shut the curtains, he forgets apparently. He doesn't help out, at all, and I feel like it's because I'm the one asking him to help. I asked him to move all the medicine out of the reach of our 9 month old so he left an open bottle of nurofen on the floor, behind a door so I never noticed it, and our son drank from it. Night spent at A&E. I've just found an open bottle of Anbesol (teething liquid) on the floor so he obviously didn't learn from last time. Yesterday our son didn't sleep all day and instead spent the day screaming from overtiredness. I managed to get him to sleep and in his cot twice and my husband woke him up. Twice.
Sorry for the incoherent rant, I'm incredibly stressed and need advice on how to handle this. No suggestions of ltb please.
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My husband is being a dick.
DaleyBum · 28/08/2014 11:21
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