Posted on here recently about a guy I had been briefly seeing, been on a few dates and it seemed like we both had a connection. However he's got a job in London 4 hours away from me.... From the start I always said it wouldn't be a good idea and he convinced me to 'see what happens' basically saying it would be stupid not to give it a go..... He also kept saying how he would 'prove' it to me how he wouldn't just forget me because he's living away etc etc
Blaaaa he's been there 2 weeks and we have still spoken via instant message every day (brief convos)
since the day we met however I feel like his behaviour is causing me to go insane and I don't know if I'm just been overly needy because I've been hurt a lot in the past or whether I'm been rationale!
- doesn't ring me anymore- I've rang him twice and he never rang back
- still messages me first if I don't message him but then sometimes gives quite closed responses with no questions
-takes longer than usual to reply (I guess that's understandable)
-hasn't arranged when he's coming back home (his family live near me) again maybe understandable
I get the fact he will be extremely busy as he has a new job and new place to live etc - he messaged me today saying 'I'm hungover come give me a cuddle all day' then I responded he responded and I sent him another message and he hasn't replied! Again he could be busy but I've seen he was online on whatsapp and he's been active on instragram since liking peoples photos! He still hasn't replied 7 hours later...
Should I give him a chance and see how it goes in a few weeks when he settles in or just cut him off now before it ends in a disaster?
I know I sound like a whiney teenager right now I can't work out if I am been a drama queen or not!!!
Helppppp a moanie needyyy girl out please :)
Thank you so much!!!!
P.s we are both 24 (not 16 believe it or not haha)