Have NC for this.
I am pretty sure my DP of 10 yrs is having an affair. We have 2 DC and I'm 35wks pregnant with our third.
I know it sounds odd asking strangers what to do but I have no friends or family near and don't feel I have anyone to talk to.
I have had suspicions for a little while but put it down to pregnancy hormones (have had thoughts like this when pregnant previously)
He gets home from work later than me (we are on holiday so no work at the moment). He constantly goes out, just short trips, walking dog or shop etc.
I got suspicious as all of a sudden he was keeping his phone on him, previously it would be laying around, not on etc.
I did the stupid thing today as for once he left it at home when he went out with the kids. It was turned off so I turned it on and looked. There was one message (he usually deletes everything as he goes along so I was quite surprised to find anything) it was from an unsaved number, sent at 5.30 in the morning. The gist was ' what are your plans today?' It then asked when they could say hello, even if briefly for half an hour.
I feel sick, he is seeing someone else isn't he? How the hell do I deal with this? Do I ask him outright and admit to looking at his phone?
Shit what am I going to do?
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Sickandworried · 12/08/2014 15:51
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