We have been friends for several years, but she's just so flaky! I get the impression that she makes several plans and then goes with the best offer and decides on the day. We were meant to be meeting up last Wednesday with our DCs, but she sent me a text right at the time we were meant to be meeting to say they couldn't make it as her DCs were tired. By this time, my DCs and I were at the meeting place, and I had to go ahead with the plans as my children were excited, but the plans had been initiated by my friend, as had the time we were meeting, and we had purposely got up early to meet her.
Another time she asked if my DC and I wanted to meet her and her DC in town for lunch. She arrived slightly earlier than I did, and sent me a text saying that the place we were meeting for lunch was full. I text back that I would be there in 2 minutes. When I arrived she'd gone! I phoned her and she and her children were already in their car driving out of the car park! There were loads of other places we could have gone to eat or for a quick coffee!
It makes me really cross as she makes plans with other people and is always tagged on Facebook at various places with various friends, but I'd say over 75% of the time if she is meeting me she cancels, usually on the day itself and usually with a lame excuse. She has suggested meeting again this week but I know she will cancel again, as she always does. I've told her that I'm unsure what I'm doing this week but that I'll get back to her. I'm tempted to just not get back to her! There seems very little point in spending time organising things, getting up early in the summer holidays, rushing to get somewhere, and then for her to cancel again.
I'm thinking it's probably time to ditch her and stop making plans with her?
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Very flaky friend. Time to ditch her?
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doleena · 09/08/2014 20:51
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