Just a straw poll. Have been overwhelmingly attracted to someone since the moment I met him ten years ago, probably more so than anyone else I've ever met. Circumstances (both in long term relationships) mean I've never acted on it, been trying to do the right thing and make my marriage work plus am not the type to knowingly break someone else's up either but both marriages have finally broken down.
I'm just pondering whether it's possible to feel incredibly bowled-over by someone and them not to feel anything for you? Probably not going to act on it in any case because a relationship is the last thing I want now - and I value his friendship too much - but I do find myself mooning over this guy like a lovesick teenager!
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munki · 03/08/2014 22:47
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