I posted a few weeks ago, having discovered DH was cheating on me with a work colleague. I received lots and lots of helpful advice and suggestions from you guys and so I thought I'd post an update.
ATM we are still together and "attempting" to reconcile following this. Some days are better than others.
My biggest thing at the moment is this over-powering need to know absolutely every single detail. I think because there have been multiple confessions - it started with just being some texts and one kiss, to meeting up regularly and oral sex, to intercourse etc etc. I think this is where I'm hitting a brick wall.
I have actually now written all my questions down and given them to him. I've asked him to write it down being 100% honest.
To be honest I don't know what I hope to achieve from this, but I just feel stuck at the moment and that I can't even begin to move forward (if at all) until I have these answers.
Most of the questions I've already asked, but because my mind is working overtime I'm getting myself in a right state.
Of course now I'm stressing over actually reading his answers later as I'm fully expecting something else he has omitted to tell me.
I know most people will think I'm totally nuts. Bottom line is its so very hard to just stop loving the person you believed to be your soul mate, but I'm just not sure we'll make it.
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A few more weeks down the line
tornandhurt · 09/07/2014 14:16
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