Ended 3 year 'relationship'. Met p online, we have never lived together, both been married before and met him during my divorce. I didn't want anything serious at the time. Unplanned pregnancy and misscarriage, 1 instance of violence and verbal abuse and felt controlled. Felt constantly under pressure for him to move in. I'm financially ok, own house and have decent job. He isn't. I don't feel supported with my ds and feel it has to be kept separate, not sustainable. I've ended it many times. Just ended it again as I'm not getting what I need and he is very needy. I feel guilty but strangely not bothered? Just a bit lost. Is this going to hit me at some point?! He told me 'he knows what he needs to do' implying sleeping with someone to get over me, that did hurt. Just would like your thoughts? Where do I go from here?
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