I came out of a ten month relationship in April, which was amazing to begin with but deteriorated over the last months, mainly due to his anxiety and relationship history, and me reacting by becoming overly reassuring, and with hindsight probably quite smothering.
Started another relationship with a wonderful man who I've know for 7 years, and dated previously. He treats me like a princess, he is kind, works hard, amazing in absolutely everything
But I can't let go of my ex. Our DCs have a lot of contact and get on well, but he won't speak to me, or respond to texts - which have been very low key. He finished things by saying he slept with someone else. I don't think he did, he just wanted me off his back. He cancelled dates with no notice, was rough in bed and showed me very little consideration towards the end, but I can't stop thinking of what life could have been like for us and our families, because when we were good it was everything I ever wanted. I know I'm in danger of losing this new relationship because I just can't let it go.
Advice much needed, please.
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hollyhobbie123 · 06/06/2014 19:35
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