Just that really. I split with stbxh 1.5 years ago after his year long affair. On discovery he said he wanted neither of us.
I plucked up the courage to say I wanted divorce about 5 months ago but it's been a slow process.
This 'finality' makes me feel like we need to give our marriage one last shot as I truly feel as though his paid and realised what he did and there may be hope?!
In that time tho I had a fling (when separated). the feeling of being with someone new gave me excitement I've never experienced. For the first time I felt good about myself and desired and wanted etc. I was with my ex since we were kids and so we never had that stage of our relationship.
Now I'm wondering if I try again with ex because we were always a good 'family' and try a 'new' relationship as I believed he's changed OR do I follow the route I have been taking with OD and going on dates and finding someone new who's never hurt me before?
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