I've been divorced a couple of years, done a bit of dating off and on - met one guy I really fell for and he ended it, another guy I saw for a while who I liked but found him too needy & insecure so I ended it. Gave the whole dating thing a miss for a while after that but finally decided to go back online.
So last week I met a really nice guy. I've only seen him twice so far and for all intents and purposes he is exactly what I'm looking for. He's smart, reasonably attractive, good job. Went to his place tonight and had a really nice time. Intellectually we are on exactly the same wavelenght - it was probably the most engaging conversation I've had with another human being in a long time!
But when we finally kissed, well, I just felt nothing. There's nothing particularly about him physically that I don't like - I just did not enjoy kissing him. It felt nice to have a mans arms around me but I really could not imagine doing anything more with him. I know he likes me and I feel like such an idiot for not liking him more. Men like him seem to be few and far between in these parts - at least the single ones! What do I do? Do i give it some more time and see or do I have to just trust my gut and know it cna't go any further?
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met a great guy but I don't fancy him
KidsDontThinkImCool · 18/05/2014 00:47
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