WhenI was single I would initally go on attraction, spark but when it came to make your mind up time I tended to use my head. When I first started dating my partner there were two other men in the running so to speak. One a creative, one sexy as hell but a bit rough and then my partner very attractive perhaps not as exciting as the other two very reliable, good job and loyal.
When I was making my mind up I wasn't cold about it but I looked at the hard facts and made a reasoned choice based on who I felt would be a better long term partner and I have always felt I made the right choice.
What about the rest of you?
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How "sensible" were you when choosing a partner?
Sobanoodledoodle · 13/05/2014 12:54
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