Been together since our teens. 3dc 1 -12.
He doesn't work, doesn't look after the baby either, we have a childminder. I work fulltime. He has CFS but also smokes a huge amount of cannabis for "medication"
I'm practically a single parent. I do all work, school runs, appointments, breakfast, lunch, dinner, house work, bath time and bed times.
He sleeps. A lot. During the day and stays up late at night. He sleeps on the sofa. Says he doesn't want to wake me. Only sleeps in the bed if we have sex.
His only complaint in life is I'm not affectionate or sympathetic enough. We don't have sex enough apparently.
Just writing this makes me seem pathetic.
I've told him tonight that there really is no point to this unless he's an active member of thge family. His response is fine, if I'm so bad you won't miss me when I'm gone then. He's now moping about feeling sorry for himself. He's telling me he's going to the council tomorrow to get housed. I've heard it all before. He hasn't a penny which I know doesn't help his self esteem. He's entitled to ESA but because of my earnings doesn't get any. He has access to my account but doesn't touch the money in a martyer like way.
I don't know what to do. I'm so so unhappy. I'm on antidepressants. He's just seen me type this and is now sarcastically asking me if I'm making plans for my future. His paranoia is another thing !
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