We are having marriage counselling, and he has said that he does not want to split up because I am unable to meet the children's individual needs.
When asked why, his reason was that I have not vacuumed upstairs all week, and this is unhealthy. I was gobsmacked. So was the counsellor.
He just repeated it to me again, and added that I caused a nappy rash in our ds (it was a mild redness which cleared up in a day), and that when ds3 stayed in hospital for an operation on his broken arm, I would never have coped with that.
I can't believe he can be quite so malicious
So angry, am mentally calling him cuntface as he sleeps.
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H has accused me of neglecting the kids
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knackeredknitter · 04/05/2014 01:50
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