any Guardian Soulmates experts out there? technical question

[discophile]

I am registered. If I look at someone else's profile, then hide my profile, will they know that I have looked at their profile? I think the answer is no. But I don't want to risk it.

(It sounds a bit stalk ish and weird but it's not. I just don't want someone to know I fancy them... that's all).

Thanks!

[onedayatatimeLondon]

I haven't used that site so cant answer your specific question. but wanted to know how you hope to meet someone if you don't let them know you are interested.

I used another site a few years ago. I was terrified and found it excruciating, but I took the plunge and said hello to a few people. One person contacted me immediately. To cut a long story short we are getting married in september.

Be yourself but don't be too shy.

Good luck

[discophile]

Alright, well thanks. I will have to tell him at some point! You're right. Glad it ended happily for you!

[Lorelei353]

Once you've hidden your profile they won't see it. But it's good for them to know you've looked and looking doesn't mean fancying.

I met my dh on Soulmates

[TittyNotSusan]

If your profile is hidden as PP said, they won't know, but when you unhide your profile, they might (not sure)

I have a second profile that is permanently hidden for just such reasons! It does mean you can't see the subscriber only photos, but you can have a good old nosey at as many profiles as you like. I use it to check out the local competition too. I don't want the mum I know from swimming classes to know I'm having a look at her profile! I also let my friends log in to it to check out blokes on my behalf. Wouldn't want to give them access to my real profile!

[Sassy777]

I didn't realise you could do that!! I decided the other day (on my wedding anniversary as it happens) to register on guardian soulmates. There don't seem to be many blokes near me though (I'm in suffolk)!