that it could be arranged.... We both work FT in fairly stressful jobs. He sometimes has short business trips/dinners midweek so has meals out, hotels etc. I have one DC (not DPs) age 11. We live together.
DP pleases himself (working) about the times he comes home, sometimes as late as 8pm on a school night. .when he doesnt have a business event. He occasionally does some food shopping but usually I do it or there would be nothing organised.
When DP does cook midweek he tends to cook something fancy which takes ages and is not ready until after 8pm. I think this us too late for us to eat, esp for DC. I have told him this.
Tonight DP was home over an hour before me. I phoned home when I left work to check if he had started dinner. .no answer. I picked up some food on way home..just as well as when I got in at 6.45 he was mucking around doing non urgent jobs in the garden. DC was hungry and was raiding the snack cupboard...
I had to come straight in and get going in cooking without even getting my jacket off. We ate at 7.20.
I just get so fed up of being the organiser and that his assumption is that I will get the food shopping and cook. I think he is so used to getting things done for him in hotels etc
that he just doesn't think ahead...making me resentful.
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