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DH and I have not been getting on that well recently. Nothing major, I thought.
He sent me an email today telling me he is going for counselling tonight as he is so very unhappy. I was very very surprised.
We have then been sending emails back and forth as he didn't want to have the conversations face to face.
We are basically disagreeing over parenting. We have a DS who is 2.5 and an older DD 9.
We can't seem to agree, I said lets takl tonight and he has just sent me this:
With respect to both of our feelings - why would either of us want to go through the same old discussion again?
This exchange was undertaken with the hope that if things were typed out, it would be clearer.
They are.
You think that I am wrong and some kind of bully to boot.
I think that you are wrong.
I would. You would. Zero progress. As always.
I just don't know what to do next, how to have a proper convetrsation. I feel terrible that he's so unhappy he is going to conselling, but also can't beleive its got that bad that he hasn't mentioned it to me.
When he gets back after it I am going to have to ask if there is anything other than the parenting making him unhapppy.
We disagreed over DS the other week and he said he was so sick of me 'interferring' that he wasn't going to do any of the disciline anymore and that I could do it all.
I guess I am just looking for some sound advice, what should I do next?
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