We had a social meeting organised to meet other hotel guests (small hotel) A few hours and many drinks later. My dh was chatting to one of the men and I was chatting to his girlfriend, having not really met them before the chat was very general and light. Then I noticed dh coming back from the toilet with loo roll stuck to his foot - very funny and a little bit yuk. Then a while later from nowhere this guy came up to me and said. 'Do you have zero level standards at home?' He was not laughing. I looked at him quite shocked and puzzled and before I had chance to say anything he walked off. Obviously dh had been saying something about our home life. After that the atmosphere was a little weird, probably due to how I took the statement and we went back to our room leaving the others to carry on socialising.
The day after I told dh what had been said and asked him to explain. He said he couldn't remember. I said I didn't believe him and he said I would have to ask the guy has he really could not remember. He had had a few drinks but was not beyond remembering I'm sure. Who goes and holiday and talks to strangers about there private life. I know he has problems about our relationship. We do have ups and downs.
Our home is not a show house. We work full-time and have a dog. My husband walks and feeds the dog and cleans his car and that's about it. Everything else is my area cooking,washing, cleaning etc etc which does get me down at times and causes quite a lot of bad atmosphere and he will not help unless I nag.
I would never ever say anything derogatory about him true or not. Why would he have a dig at me through a complete stranger. I know if I bring it up again today he'll say I just want to cause a arguement. Anyone else been embarrassed by the dh.
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Husband totally embarassed me whilst on holiday. Can't bring myself to talk to him now were home.
gagaworship · 31/03/2014 14:10
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