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A lip-wibbling unashamed Mother's Day boast

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akaWisey · 30/03/2014 12:15

This is the letter my DD (18) has just given me:

Dear Mum,

Happy Mother's Day! You have been a mother now for 34 years. How does that feel?

I hope you've loved being a mum to me, DS1 and DS2 because we love having you as our mum. I don't doubt being a mum is hard especially with the lives we have had so far, but you've done it so well.

No matter how much we've been through and how difficult we have been to cope with you have always been there and never gave up on us. Equally we're here for you, we've all taken your side and all support you, because we love you.

You may already know this but i am so proud of the woman you are. It's amazing for me to see you so sad during a horrible time and compare that to how you are now. It shows your strength. It shows you are a good person and although it all may have hindered our relationship a bit at the time it also brought us closer together so I'm thankful for that.
I feel that from the way you have brought me up, especially after these last couple of years, I have become very independent and I have been allowed to become me. I've grown up a lot thanks to you. Although that may sound sad to you as if I'm about to fly away it's actually a good thing. It means I won't have to rely on anyone in my life.

You know yourself (even though sometimes you're doubtful). You are an amazing woman/mother/person. And hey, you've got men dropping falling at your feet!! Don't ever doubt you're all the things I've said because I mean it. I love you mum.

Little Wisey

So - I'm going to have a small cry Grin

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WhispersOfWickedness · 30/03/2014 12:17

Aww, that's lovely GrinThanks

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mammadiggingdeep · 30/03/2014 12:18

I'm having a small cry for you. Just lovely. You deserve it.

Wine cheers!

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Bowlersarm · 30/03/2014 12:18

Oh how lovely. I can see I need to drop hints to my 18 year old that this is the very present I'd like next year.

Have a great day, OP.

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bohoec · 30/03/2014 12:20

Yes, amazing. Well done for being such a fantastic mum. And your DD sounds wonderful - independent, empathetic and kind enough to take the time to put words on paper to tell you how much you mean to her.

Happy Mother's Day Wine

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louby44 · 30/03/2014 12:37

Lovely! You must be very proud! Enjoy your day

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Deathwatchbeetle · 30/03/2014 14:58

Waaaaaaaah! That has made me fill up as much as the tot that made her mum some toast them got in bed beside her and ate it!!!

Keep that letter as a treasure to be pulled out whenever you have dark days or feel unappreciated.

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50KnockingonabiT · 30/03/2014 15:03

I am having a cry on your behalf too:)

Be proud, not only of your children, but of yourself, you've obviously done a great job X

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Raxacoricofallapatorius · 30/03/2014 15:08

You sound brilliant. I hope you feel completely proud of yourself and have a day as marvellous as you are.

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Caramelle · 30/03/2014 15:18

I think I have something in my eye. Wink

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RalphGnu · 30/03/2014 15:22

I feel all warm inside Smile

You must be so proud, OP, and your lovely DD sounds very proud too.

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FR1 · 30/03/2014 15:41

You have a lovely thoughtful daughter!

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akaWisey · 30/03/2014 16:09

She's luffly and we're going out for something nice to eat very soon.

Thank you all.

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Gunznroses · 30/03/2014 16:16

Oh my God! That is so lovely, I've got a big big lump in my throat. Your lovely daughter! Aw aw aw aw!

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Scornedwoman67 · 30/03/2014 16:56

how lovely. You are right to be so proud Flowers x

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Fathertedfan · 30/03/2014 16:56

What a lovely daughter x

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CoffeeTea103 · 30/03/2014 16:58

What a darling daughter you have Smile

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BackforGood · 30/03/2014 17:02

That's lovely - I'm having a little well up here.

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youmakemydreams · 30/03/2014 17:05

A little tear here for you too. What a wonderful letter to receive. You've obviously done a fantastic job. Have a lovely meal and an un mn big hug x

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Hissy · 30/03/2014 17:47

Aw! If ever there was a woman that deserves such a letter, it's you wisey

How lovely! :)

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Anniegetyourgun · 30/03/2014 18:07
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ScarletWomanoftheVillage · 30/03/2014 18:12

Tears here too - simply beautiful Flowers

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Rumplestiltskinismyname · 30/03/2014 18:18

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ghostinthecanvas · 30/03/2014 18:21

Thats lovely. Thank you for sharing x Flowers

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Deathwatchbeetle · 30/03/2014 21:07

This is what it is all about, not the over commercial crap!

This was surely appreciated more than a hallmark card and flowers. It is the showing of appreciation and making the effort to show she really does appreciate you.

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jayho · 30/03/2014 21:22

well done wisey x

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