I got out of an emotionally abusive marriage last year. A couple of months ago, out of the blue, I met a man I really liked and we dated. We were in touch a lot and I thought we had really connected. I behaved a bit oddly (some of you may have read my post under the name embarrassing poo) and he dumped me. I heard from a friend that he had said he didn't want to get involved in all my baggage because he is not attracted to me enough. Ouch.
So I am now obsessing. I've convinced myself he would have been the perfect guy. I'm so sick of thinking like this because I know he wasn't really.
How do I sort myself out. It's a completely disproportionate reaction to the length of the relationship (if you would even call it that). I've always done this, found it impossible to get over a guy until I have met another and I don't want to be like that anymore. I want to be happy just me and my daughter and focus on friends and work but it keeps popping into my head and getting me really down.
A couple of people on my last thread suggested counselling which I don't want to do at this stage as I have just
Moved and finances are a bit tight. I will do it though if I can't sort this out myself.
Is there any steps I can take to forget about the hurt and learn to be happy on my own and not to care what people think. Also to stop obsessing. God, I sound like a crazy person don't i?
I know there are bigger problems out there but if someone has any experience, please help and give me a kick up the bum
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StuckInTheMudd · 29/03/2014 07:45
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