About a year ago I had a one night stand with a guy who works in my local pub, I was drunk, had just been dumped and regretted it completely the next day.
Since then he hounded me with text messages and telephone calls.
I told him to back off and the texts dwindled a little and I blocked his number. He lives and works fairly close by so I would see him sometimes and ignore him.
Anyway, rewind to last November, I saw him on my street pushing a girl up against a building, I intervened and she said she was ok, she walked off in opposite direction. He was being a bit slimey with me and I told him in no uncertain terms, keep away from me, my friends and my house. He started saying "you don't mean that, you fucking loved it" after which I slapped him hard across the face and repeated to keep away.
Few months later I'm walking home from work and there he is, walking away from the small block of flats I live in. He must have been inside because it is like a cul de sac and there is no reason for him to be there unless he was visiting someone in them. He held eye contact and gave me a angry look.
Anyway I have seen him a few times and ignored. Last night when I got home I saw him walk past and into the building where the communal laundry room is. So he has moved into my block of flats.
I feel scared, threatened and anxious about this. I feel like he's taking the piss.
Should I say something to him, clear the air? (I felt bad after I slapped him, it was a hefty whack) I have an appointment with housing officer next week regarding a flat transfer (originally unrelated to this) so maybe I could give some info about the situation...which could be slightly embarassing for me.
I feel stressed out, just as I was forgetting about him he's back on the scene.
I am also in a 10 month relationship, my partner is fully aware of the situation but does not live with me
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One Night Stand back to haunt me
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OnEdgeNow · 28/03/2014 11:33
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