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making our anniversary special!

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JokersGiggle Wed 26-Mar-14 18:52:33

This is going to be our 4yr anniversary and I want it to be extra special. Last year was rubbish. On the anniversary day we were going though our 4th MC (at 15 Weeks) so we just skipped it.
I have got tickets to a gig in London. I've got a mani/pedi and wax booked, got some sexy stuff to wear....but I want some new ideas for making sex special. We have sex very regularly so want something new to make the day special. want to blow his mind. friends are too shy to say what they think or share tips, so I thought on here people would be more forth coming.
What positions work well on your guys? Any hints and tips? Don't be shy! I need all your best ideas by Friday afternoon!

Nomama Wed 26-Mar-14 19:16:15

Did you know that the 4th is the fruit and flowers anniversary.... ?

JokersGiggle Wed 26-Mar-14 19:43:03

Thanks for telling me smile

GhettoPrincess Wed 26-Mar-14 20:27:27

She doesn't want a banana up the bum does she ? Oh, sorry, unless that's part of what she had planned.

Um, for our wedding anniversary this year we are going to spend the night at a lakeside retreat with a spa bath. We will have been married 20 years this year.

(Sorry for your loss. I hope that if you fall pregnant and can trace it back to your wedding anniversary, that is what will make it mind blowing.)

JokersGiggle Wed 26-Mar-14 20:48:01

Haha I don't want a banana up the bum!
Its just that sex has become just something we do now. I want to make it special....just don't know how. The stuff google has suggested are...interesting lol, but I'd need to be an acrobat to pull those things off!

JokersGiggle Wed 26-Mar-14 20:49:06

Honestly we are thinking of stopping ttc for a bit. Sex isn't special anymore

Nomama Thu 27-Mar-14 12:54:50

So fruit and flowers become an nice option not a terrifying one then smile

I'd stop trying so hard, tbh. Warm room, little bit of drink, light food - fruit salad, passionfruit dressing - and lots of skin contact. Get back to just touching with no expectations.

Good luck though.... sounds like an interesting problem

JokersGiggle Thu 27-Mar-14 13:45:32

It is a funny problem lol. good idea with the salad!

Seb101 Thu 27-Mar-14 18:42:10

How about a 'love egg' I think it's called?!?? Basically a sex toy. You put it inside you and give your dh the remote control! He controls the on and off function, speed, rhythm etc
Go out for a meal, and put your dh in control for the evening. Try keeping a straight face when your dh switches it on max as your about to order your food! Lol. They do make male versions too. But my dh wasn't keen. Didn't want to deal with a massive hard on in the middle of a restaurant!
It's certainly exciting, builds tension; maybe. You never know you might not even make it home after dinner...!
Just an idea.... Might not be your thing.

JokersGiggle Thu 27-Mar-14 18:53:22

That sounds brilliant!!! Thanks grin

JokersGiggle Thu 27-Mar-14 19:09:55

Ordered one grin thanks

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