Having experienced my husband stopping loving me without any build up or reasons to explain it I am confused about how this happened.
I have googled "signs he is no longer in love" and he didn't show any of them. I googled "sings he truly loves you" and he showed all of them.
We'd been together 4 years. Married for less than a year. Then suddenly he said all feelings for me were gone.
I asked him if he ever really loved me the way he said he did, and he said everything before was real and true and that he thought I was the love of his life, but that it's just not how he feels anymore.
There's no other woman.
He just stopped loving me.
Is this possible?
I have accepted that he has checked out of our marriage and is not interested in any solutions or discussion and I am accepting it now after a lot of months of fighting it.
All I really want to know was whether the relationship I had before was real. He came to me on the rebound after his ex partner cheated on him. He was very infatuated with me and our relationship was very sexual. I am worried that I was a band aid to hide his pain of losing the woman he really loved. I am worried that he never loved me, because if he did, why would he just stop?
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Can love just disappear?
ShakespearesUglySister · 26/03/2014 11:47
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