Marks a cross on the days on the calendar that we don't have sex! He d to do it in a diary a year ago and I felt really pressured now this calendar is on the kitchen wall for everyone to see.Admittedly no-one knows what the crosses mean but does anyone else's husband do this??
I agree with Justice. Get a pen and cross off every day for the rest of this month.
Go back to the days he's crossed off and write underneath those days things like:
No foreplay provided by you Weight of your expectation made me feel defensive You didn't ask in a nice way I was tired My vagina was still sore from the meaningless pounding I got last time I'm to angry with you to relax We don't communicate You do not get sex as of right My body is not a vessel to be used by you
not only would i cross out the whole of next month - i would cross the entire rest of the year with a note saying until he stops pressuring you the crosses mean exactly what he made them mean! tell him to stop being such a prick.
That is well beyond bonkers. I can't think why someone would do something like that but surely any explanation would have to contain words like "selfish", "entitled" and "twat". And the solution would need to refer to sex and (one-way) travel. What an arsehole.
Because he marks the calendar with a big cross if you don't? That in itself would put me right off as it would feel like he was pressuring me/emotionally blackmailing me. Why does he feel the need to do this?