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The Owl Man is stalking me online. Again

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ParsleyTheLioness Mon 24-Mar-14 08:30:20

Had to namechange a couple of years ago when I discovered abusive XH, then H, was stalking me online. It has come to my attention he is doing it again....I don't want to namechange again, part of me thinks stuff him, let him read it. Nothing I wouldn't stand by in RL. Part of me is v v angry that he is trying to destroy my 'safe place'. Again. Any thoughts about whether I should in fact name change, or just carry on. TIA

ohldoneedtogetagrip Mon 24-Mar-14 08:47:48

Where is he stalking you? Is it here or on other parts of the internet.

Let him stalk if it is on here. We all know him for the twat/wanker that he is--ho knows we know. Now he knows you are aware that he is stalking you again.

If you need to you can go somewhere "safe" and we can follow grin

TheCatThatSmiled Mon 24-Mar-14 09:07:56

Hey Parsley, I remember you.
He really is insane isn't he?

I understand why you don't want to name change, but he's such a nutter it might be better for you if you did. Even if there's nothing you have posted that you wouldn't say in real life, you will still be checking yourself.
I've name changed because someone spotted me, and that was a mate smile

cozietoesie Mon 24-Mar-14 09:42:52

I'd name change, Parsley. It's not cowardice so much as prudence (and also less wearing); and if he then wants to spend huge amounts of time trying to track you down again then more fool him.

CogitoErgoSometimes Mon 24-Mar-14 09:57:17

" Any thoughts about whether I should in fact name change, or just carry on. "

Good opportunity for some misinformation I'd have thought... Change your username but use the old one creatively and trap him into making a fool of himself.

ParsleyTheLioness Mon 24-Mar-14 13:33:13

Ok, thanks all. I shall re-post in the other bit...

Blu Mon 24-Mar-14 13:34:41

Perhaps he should read up very carefully on cyber-bullying and the consequences.

ParsleyTheLioness Mon 24-Mar-14 13:46:16

Oh he is doing it here again, and possibly elsewhere... Good point Blu

ParsleyTheLioness Mon 24-Mar-14 13:47:56

All interesting points btw, Cogito, oh, the possibilities! I don't know if I have the energy left, but the alter-ego I could create for myself! ;)

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