Together for 23 years. 2 DS 24 and 19.
Husband unfortunately is insecure and jealous and controlling.
I was sahm until last year. Got office job which I love.
He controlled all finances.
We separated last summer for 6 months after he lost his temper and accused me of cheating when I was actually seeing a sick girlfriend in hospital.
Started counselling at that time. He moved back to the home after 6 months into spare room. We are still having counselling.
Yet I am still saying the same things. Last week he came into a pub where I was meeting my friend to check up on me.
I have never and would never cheat.
He sulks and is abusive. But I have invested 23 years and feel sorry for him. I do love him but times I don't like him.
I just don't know what to do.
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Marriage counselling for 8 months - I don't think he will change
Funnyfishface · 24/03/2014 00:24
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