Have nc as I don't want outing.
So back story is that dh had an affair close to 2 years ago. We've tried to plaster over the cracks but I still can't get over it.
I've decided that I want a trial separation for a year. That way we both can have our own space and figure stuff out. Whilst he is here its too easy to just get on with looking after dc's and work. Basically feels like we are pretending.
I feel like we each need to sort our own stuff out alone before we can even look at working stuff out together.
This is the last ditch attempt at saving things. I need him out of the house so I can think. There is definitely marriage worth saving underneath it all. I just want to say we tried everything.
Anyone had experience of this? Anything I should look out for?
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RainbowDashMustDie · 20/03/2014 13:47
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