Is this a red flag maybe? and I need to get it off my chest !
We have been together about 6 weeks, I have not long come out of a mentally abusive relationship of 4 yrs and this has just kind of happened I have known him a little for about a year.
He is lovely,kind and what I would always be looking for EXCEPT!
I am getting bombarded with texts , even before 830 in the morning I usually have 3-4 from him, if I dont get chance to reply within 10mins I get another, along the lines of "u okay?" then 10mins later "hope yr phone hasnt broken" 10mins later " are u awake?"
I feel like I cant breathe!
He wants to see me everyday and I have to say no and come up with a good enough excuse that is plausable enough not to see him.
He said he wants me to move in - which is so wrong and soon but he cannot see it!
I dont want to rush anything and I have explained this!
I feel wary of getting close so soon, is this normal behavoiur of a new relationship and I'm pushing a good thing away ?
My ex showed no affection at all ( unless he wanted something!)
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New relationship - he's clingy and I cant breathe!!
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