So my DS's and our next door neighbor's DS have been best friends all their lives. They go to school together, swimming lessons etc, etc and his mum and I have always gotten really well and have had no problems in the past. A few weeks ago, she asked me to babysit for her one night for her and her DH's anniversary, of course I had no problems with this. I get there for about 6.30 and all's fine, she says to help myself to anything, thanking me for my help.
Cut to a few hours later, the kids are in bed and I pour myself a glass of wine from her fridge and go to stick on the telly. Doing so, I accidentally stood on her dog's tail. It's a nice enough dog, but it's a rescue and can be a bit snappy. I bent down to clap and see if he was alright and he bit my hand, breaking the skin. This really hurt and it bled a fair bit, but I cleaned the cut and all was fine. Finally, when she and her DH came home, an hour and a half after they said they'd be home, I asked how their night had gone. It was obvious they'd had a fight, I'm not sure what actually happened because I never found out, but she was in a really bad mood.
I probably should have kept it to myself but I told her what happened with the dog and she told me to pss off, saying it wasn't the dog's fault. I never actually blamed her dog, I just told her what happened and she completely lashed out. Then she saw the glass of wine and told me I shouldn't have been drinking, especially not her wine. I apologized but she wouldn't have it and just told me to leave, saying I had ruined her night. By this point her DH was in bed, we never spoke that night, he just went upstairs. I got up to go, asking her again what had happened. She told me to 'mind my own fcking business' and slammed the door in my face.
I don't know if I've done something or if it was because of what happened when she was out, but it's been two weeks now and I've not spoken to her since then, I don't really want to, but our DS's are friends and we live next door, I don't want things to get worse.
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AIBU to be upset with my neighbor?
boiledbeefandcarrots99 · 19/03/2014 18:27
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