I walk on eggshells around him.
He wants me to take charge of everything. If the toilet needs cleaning he'll say 'Can we keep this clean?' but really he wants me to do it. And I feel guilted into doing it.
I'm skint at the moment. Properly skint. (Working hours are doubling as of next week though so it'll get better.) He won't help me. There's a place in town where I can take my large collection of DVDs and get £1 each for them but you need photo ID which I don't have. Asked him if he'd do it with his and he just mumbled at me.
Had a huge inheritance which paid for a chunk of our house with a bit left over as savings. They seem to have become his savings. I get whinged at frequently because I spent some of it, all on stuff we needed for the house.
He told me to work more hours. Now I've got more hours he's moaning.
I can never do anything right. Everything I do is wrong. Everything.
I'm so depressed.
We've just had a row on the phone. He didn't want what I've made for dinner. Okay, it's not been in long, I can take it out. But, no. That's not an option either and I'm not being logical.
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Don't know what to do. Badly want to throw up now I've admitted all of this.
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I don't think I love DP anymore.
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NinjaBunny · 18/03/2014 17:28
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