Since november, when me and EA ex finally split. That was all very traumatic.
Boxing day, my dm ends up in hospital. Turns out it is incurable breast cancer.
She is doing well at the minute. Although, she is sleeping a lot more and cant walk for long now.
So her health is declining. Obvious, maybe, but ive not been accepting it.
As far as i could 'see' she was fine.
Now i can see otherwise.
On top of all of this ive had social services from mine and exes break up, so ive had meeting after meeting. All positive, but still stressful.
Now my dad is going through all of the tests my dm had, as he has a mass on his lung which has grown.
I have been blocking everything, and have been plodding along to the point people asking me how i am coping and handling everything so well.
I think i have worried about social services thinking that i cant cope so much that ive managed to shut off from it all.
Now i am struggling to keep it all in.
I feel awful as im stressing at the kidd. Although they are pushing my buttons - but thats what kids do when they sense you are down. I know this yet im still snappy.
I am so frustrated with myself for letting it all get on top of me.
What has made me feel worse is i spotted my neighbour watching me head off on the school run today, and just as i did i was miming "fucks sake". I hope to god she didnt think i was saying it out loud.
I am doing the freedom programme at the minute too, which is making me relive moments i dont really want to relive!
I know it will benefit me in the long run, but at the minute its just an extra annoyance of stress.
Ive got one person i talk to in RL about all of this. Even then, i minimise everything so to not end up in a huge talk, forcing me to accept things for how they really are!
I cant sleep as im worrying about everything, which frustrates me as i am absolutely shattered.
I dont really know what to expect from posting this. Just getting it off my chest i suppose
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wontletmesignin · 18/03/2014 10:03
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