DP and I have been together for 4 years, living together for 2. We have one DC and I am now pregnant with DC2.
I was recently flicking through his phone for a text message I had sent him (he knew I was doing this) and I found a series of conversations between him and a female colleague of his. It was banter but definitely on the flirty side. He had put hearts and kisses in some of the texts. Tbh most of the flirting seemed to come from him. I tried to put it out of my mind as have been stressed with work and other family business.
I don't know what I was thinking but last week I looked at his phone again and saw another conversation. This one referred to a picture and DP (hmmm!) was asking if she had sent a 'naughty' picture of herself.
I am fuming. I don't know if anything has happened but it reads very inappropriate to me. I have many male friends and that is not how we talk to each other.
It just feels like such a cliche with me being pregnant and generally feeling quite shit about my appearance.
I just had to vent this as I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.
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I am now convinced DP is having an emotional affair
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sebest · 17/03/2014 13:29
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