For the last 7 years I have followed my DH around the world while he swapped jobs every 2 years ago. He came home last Friday and said he may be made redundant soon and is now talking about returning to a country we left 3 years ago. I've had enough we have 2 DC both at secondary who have each gone to 4 schools in 3 countries and I think its time to put them first. I am now making plans to return to the UK and let him get on with it. I don't know what effect it will have on our marriage . I doubt it will survive but do you think I am wrong to sacrifice our marriage for the sake of the DC stability or would you put your DH first? For the record he is not entertaining looking at any Uk jobs at the moment purely focussing on international jobs although in his defence there are not many opportunities available at his level and field in the UK.
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