Dh has a very well paid job that's he's been doing for about 2 years. He's been in this line of work (senior management in Sales and Marketing) for years.
I used to work as a nurse but we moved overseas for 5 years so my registration has lapsed plus we had ds out there (he's 7 now) so I've been at home for past 11 years.
I now work part time in a preschool as support for a boy with additional needs. I earn minimum wage.
So basically my Dh is breadwinner and pays for everything. Obviously my wages go into the pot but tbh it's such a small amount it barely registers!
Anyway Dh is REALLY miserable and hates his job. I mean really hates it. Feels the company is crap and he wakes up dreading every day. He works from home so is isolated. He works long hours cos of time differences. I have said to him to look for another job but I think he would like to do something else entirely but doesn't know what. He feels he's letting me and the kids down as we are used to this lifestyle but I've told him that's bollocks and his happiness is more important etc. our eldest dd is getting married next year and I know he wants to help them with a deposit for a house which we can do with his current salary. I love our home and where we live but would move somewhere smaller if necessary. I just want him happy but he doesn't know what to do job wise and I don't know what to suggest.
Has anybody made a massive career change at 45 and changed their entire lifestyle? Has it worked ? I have no idea what I can do work wise for the future. Don't really want to go back to nursing but that's all I've done other than my current p/t job.
I want my happy Dh back. Sorry for waffling!
I just don't know what to suggest to him.
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kansasmum · 15/03/2014 12:19
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