I posted Last September when I discovered DH's profile on grindr (gay hook up site). I received a lot of support and wanted to update you all. Well 1) I got the all clear at clap clinic.
2) DH continued to deny he'd DTD (his STD results also clear. 3) DH declared love etc and put pressure on me about effects on kids..4) I developed mild depression. 5) Not proud of this so don't flame me but had affair with a man 10 years my junior since Dec .6) DH and I still married. He knows about my affair. DH has accepted and acknowledged that he has all but destroyed me and expects me to divorce him but has been a devoted husbsnd. I am biding my time....possibly weak....he is a great dad.. I am obviously not that strong. I will leave him but it may be a few months yet. xx
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My DH on grindr - Update from Sept 2013
bonniescot123 · 15/03/2014 00:25
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