But I think I want to.
Long Stories Short:
Me and DW are coming to the end of a very rocky patch, the rockiness wasn't of my making, but I stuck it out as two people solving a problem together is a bit easier than one alone.
Today, I got chatting to a young woman who is about to embark on a career path that I used to have, she was reading a book about it and I interjected about the niche nature of the career, the people who helped me and the Institutions I worked in, just anecdotal stuff.
She gave me her business card and asked for my contact details, I though at that moment it would be impolite to refuse and though nothing of it. I had mention to her that I'm now a SAHD and was on my way to do the school pickup and I also specificity mentioned DW's job.
So I walked away from that conversation thinking nothing of it, other than it was nice to have some interaction with someone outside of the School Gate conversations, and talking about a career that I was once very "into".
Within 20 minutes I got an sms from her, saying how much she enjoyed talking to me and would I like to go to a museum or gallery one lunchtime.
The only thought that went through my head as I read it was "Oh Shit! Oh Shit! Oh Shit", next though was "Fuck Yeh!", third though was back to "Oh Shit! Oh Shit! Oh Shit! WTF are you thinking man".
If I tell DW, she'll go nuts in her own quiet passive aggressive way. I have a little red devil on my shoulder going... "Go for it", partly in a tit-for-tat way (hence part of the rockiness), also in the sense that the attention of an attractive young woman buffs the ego. I also think, don't stoop so low.
Also it would be nice to spend time with someone who is interested in and has an opinion in contemporary art and culture. If it was a young man reading the book I would have said the same kind of stuff and I would jump at the chance to spend some time wandering the Tate, The ICA or Royal Academy - DW would ask me if he was gay, under those circumstances.
This is the road to hell isn't it
I think my answer now after writing all that is - Do nothing, delete the sms, never mention it and try to erase it from my memory.
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