Hi there:
I am a single mum. Although I am not divorced, I have been living separately from my EA, bipolar ex husband for about 21 months.
For the last year I have been on and off dating sites. I seem to get to 3 or 4 dates with most of them and then I either call it off or ignore their messages.
I think part of this is fear of losing my freedom if I get involved with someone. The secondly its fear of becoming intimate with someone again. Sex with my ex was not enjoyable to say the least and 'the act' was just yet another chore I had to do. Therefore when we split I was so relived not to have to grit my teeth and get on with it again and to have a nice big bed to myself.
I like the idea of having a man in my life-but as soon as the suggestion of intimacy comes along I freak out. I come across confident-I am a size 8 and wear clothes which may be deemed revealing like leggings, skinny jeans and short skirts and am friendly and out going but its all an act really.
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Thetallestsunflower · 05/03/2014 22:04
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