I caught my DH in my bed with another woman on NYE. He's told me he's in love with the OW and won't be coming home, he wants a divorce. There was absolutely no signs that he wanted to leave, I was absolutely gobsmacked. He wasn't acting different at all leading up to this, everyone was shocked and thinks he's going through a midlife crisis, albeit very young! Nobody saw this coming, he's always been so devoted to me and the kids.
He's left me single with two young children. I'm now stuck on benefits because I have no source of income, which I hate.
I just want the stupid idiot to come home. I miss him so badly. The thought of a divorce fills me with dread, I can't bear it. I don't know how much longer I can cope in this situation. CMO phoned today to let me know how much he should be paying towards the children but it just seems so final. I don't want him to be paying maintenance, I want him home!
How am I meant to go on without him? I find myself crying all the time. How can he love her after such a short time but treat me, the woman he's been with for 10 years, the mother of his children, like a piece of trash? I feel like I've been stomped on, screwed up and discarded like nothing.
It's our two year wedding anniversary in a few weeks time. I just can't believe that less than two years ago, we were so happy and he promised to love me forever. I can't believe things could have changed in such a short time.
I love him so much. How can I get over him?? Every day I live in hope that he will come home.
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EverythingsDozy · 05/03/2014 15:44
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