Because I used to think all was lost before you got to that stage, but now I'm not sure.
A friend and her partner have been together years. They've lived together for longer than I've known her, so five years plus. They are perfect together.
She's been signed off for months, with work stress. He did everything he could to help, but it did change her a bit. It's to be expected, I guess.
Anyway, they cracked a bit. He said he was worried, and maybe they should live apart and go back to staying at each others places, so that they could have fun together rather than dealing with all the stress and mundane Ness that living together brings. He said he loved her and didn't want anyone else, but that moving closer to her new job may not be a bad thing. He can't move for work related reasons.
She said no. She said it was all or nothing, that she didn't want to be with someone who didn't love her. He was upset at the thought of losing her. They had an emotional chat and he said he felt underappreciated.
All seems okay now. Neither want to leave. She thinks there is an insecurity that hadn't been there for a while though, and she asked if I thought it was ruined now.
Any thoughts? I really want to tell her that it'll be okay, but I can't work it out.
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