Can't work blokes out!
Last weekend, at a moment's notice, my BF and I went away for the weekend. Had a fab time. The only downer for me was that he said over dinner that he isn't always sure of my feelings towards him., ie, I don't tell him I love him often enough (ironic as he hardly ever says it to me!). But we had a sensible conversation about it and I explained that I didn't want him feeling smothered by my affection (he had a messy break-up from his previous partner which left him pretty untrusting of women).
This past week has been fairly shit for a variety of reasons (none BF-related) and he's been very supportive. We went out last night and he stayed over. This morning I cuddled up to him in bed and said "I love you" and was greeted with absolute silence. TBH, it made me feel a bit shit. Even an "ah, that's nice" would have been better than nothing at all. Yes, I admit, I was kind of hoping for an "I love you too" in response. Is that so wrong?
A bit later on, I asked if he wanted to come round and have dinner with DD and I this evening. He said "No, I'll let you two get on with it" (which was fine). As he was leaving, he gave my daughter a hug and said "I'll see you later on". So I said "Oh, I didn't think you were?", to which he shot me a dirty look and then left.
WTAF?!?!?
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Prforone · 02/03/2014 20:13
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