Just that really. The more I speak to people I realise that no family (I know of) is functional or 'normal'. In that, there are narcissistic family members, others that don't speak for decades, power struggles, grandparents who don't make an effort etc etc.
however I was having a good chat with someone at the weekend I don't know well at all and his family sounded so lovely; parents were childhood sweethearts, still together and happy. He's young but making plans for children with long term girlfriend. All go on holiday together frequently. I was so jealous! I crave that sort of extended happy family life, but there are so many divorces (my parents divorced messily 10 yrs ago, my brother too, after a year of marriage leaving wife & a 3month old baby) and politics, it's exhausting. They are always so easily offended, angry and judgemental..(I have my faults too mind and I'm the black sheeeep!).
Ok so, I have 2 gorgeous and lovely DDs, maybe I can break the rule?!
Any thoughts? Which is the more prevalent; happy and getting along or not?! (sorry for the navel gazing by the way!)
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Doratheexplorersboots · 02/03/2014 17:39
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