Hi, I'm more interested in other people's views than specific advice really - I'm 2 years post-adultery, absolute was granted before Christmas this year. My ex is marrying the OW and it's all been a bit shit really, especially as I was pg with DC2 when we split.
Having said that, my gorgeous DC are now 3.5 and 20months, and we're doing really, really great. I've been sort of dating for about 6 months, but never anything serious - no risk of it going anywhere. I've been very happy with that, not at all looking for a new Mr Right!
But the thing is, I met someone recently, who is pretty much totally unexpected. And he made me question what it would take for some of those walls to come down again. For the first time since my XH cheated, I'm actually considering that I might want to risk letting someone new in, and it's scary!!
So I wanted to ask people who have come out the other side of messy divorce (adultery or otherwise) and have found a happy relationship again, what was it that was different, that gave you the confidence to trust again? Was it worth it? How's it working out now?
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post adultery/divorce, what made you risk a relationship again?
chocoraisin · 01/03/2014 20:06
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