After a lovely 3 days away with my DP I've been left feeling insecure about his past. Obviously we both have one and I accept that but a few things keep infiltrating my mind. They all occurred before he met so I dont know why I feel so effected. Firstly he gambled away his money and lost his house about 7 years ago resulting in the breakdown of his marriage. He now lived with his brother and cant get credit or have anything in his own name. The other 2 things are he took recreational drugs on 3 separate occasions and he had sex with a prostitute when on a stag weekend abroad. Since being with me he has been nothing other than responsible and loving although he admits to being all or nothing. Im worried he may repeat his behaviour when he is with me or am I just being insecure?
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how much does someones past matter?
teaandcoffeetogethertastebad · 28/02/2014 19:53
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