Texting

[Confusedbytechnology]

Ok have been seeing my boyfriend for a few months. I am in love with him and am pretty sure he feels same. We spend more or less every night together.
He's just sent me I

[honeybeeridiculous]

It's a heart shape, he loves you!! Maybe he's too scared to tell you to your face yet and is just testing the water

[MirandaWest]

Bit less scary to do it by text? He might not be sure if how you feel and so doing it this way might be helping him to broach the subject delicately?

Or he might not really mean it? None of us can tell but if you ask him hopefully you'll find out :)

[WhateverTrevor83]

Aw

OP and her DP, sitting up a tree...!

I'd ask him about it too. Enjoy it (all the butterflies etc) before others start asking 'are you sure it was for you?' etc

[handfulofcottonbuds]

LTB!

Sorry, in a strange mood today

Very sweet, why not text back I

[Confusedbytechnology]

Oh good nice answers
Have sent back you too which now seems a but non committal maybe?

[caz1010]

I told my dh, then boyf, elephant juice to test the water.
no im not completey insane, if you lip read its the same a I love you. Sort of whispered it so if he burst out laughing or felt awkward I could have cone out with aq wholly bollocks story about elephant juice.
After 10 years he signs all cards and texts to ke elephant juice !

[LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726]

Oh is that what it means? I thought it was something to do with 'less than 3' so had interpreted that message as "1 less than 3 (=2) xxx".

That's sweet OP. I probably would have responded as you did, always safest when you don't know what's going on.

[MyChildDoesntNeedSleep]

I don't get the elephant juice thing!

[LineRunner]

Lying, at least OP solved the equation correctly.

[Tinks42]

Well it's very sweet and you reacted appropriately. Think he needs to tell you to your face really?

[Confusedbytechnology]

Yes am seeing him later so kind of hoping he will do so can report back. I think it's been in the air for quite a while actually so be nice to have it out in the open

[Confusedbytechnology]

Well he mentioned it first. Said he was a bit disappointed by my response.
He didn't use the L word but said well one step at a time.
Am now even more confused!

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

Ahhh bless.... where's Cathy and Claire when you need them....

[handfulofcottonbuds]

If you love him, tell him you do. There's no rules that say he has to say it first.

Life's too short to not say what you feel.

Good luck.

[ThinkFirst]

Did you just reply with "you too" or "I

[JoinYourPlayfellows]

I'd be so disappointed if the way someone decided to tell me they loved me was a text written in text speak.

I think he's lucky you responded at all.

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

To be honest I thought

[JoinYourPlayfellows]

No, it means either "less than three" or "you are a pear shape and I am Gok Wan"

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

Less than three ... you're quite right.

[JoinYourPlayfellows]

:o

I had to check a few times just to be sure.

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

It's the kind of mistake that would have me pedantically rolling my eyes at the stupidity of others.... oh the shame, the shame...

[DrinkFeckArseGirls]

He's disappointed by what?! What did he want you to say

[DrinkFeckArseGirls]

Tbh I'd have a go at him for being a petulant child.