My boyfriend has just returned from working away (been away 5 weeks). He lives about 40 miles from me and I usually see him on a weekend or alternate weekends (I have two kids).
He emailed me quite a lot for the first four weeks but the last week he was no contact. I thought things were going well with our relationship.
He has returned and said the internet was completely off and no emails could be sent in that last 9 days. The thing is, he logged into his email on my computer when he was here before and (I know I shouldn't have) but I opened his email inbox and found the week he said he couldn't message me, he was messaging several women (they live abroad) and looks like he has sent money (£200) to one and offered for her to come and live with him and work for him.
What the actual hell? I've messaged him that I feel let down he didn't contact me at all and feel he is taking me for a ride and that I feel i cannot trust him. I thought he was honest and a general good bloke. Obviously I cannot admit to looking at his emails, but WTF!
I'm crying now. I feel such a fool.
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Ships99 · 25/02/2014 00:30
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